🌟 A Note from Mom
Hello parents,
Two weeks into the new school term, my daughter came home unusually cranky one afternoon. At first, I brushed it off, thinking she was simply tired and needed a nap. A few days later, through tears, she finally told me the truth.
👧🏻 “I’m the only one who doesn’t have a friend yet…”
She had bravely asked a classmate to play, only to be ignored or gently turned away because they were busy with something else. Suddenly, her irritation made sense. It wasn’t just fatigue. It was loneliness, disappointment, and the sting of rejection.
In that moment, I knew she didn’t just need comfort. She needed strength. So we turned to role-play. With a few dolls, we practiced what it feels like to hear “no,” and explored fun ways to play on her own. Slowly, her tears dried, and her confidence began to return.
Perhaps your child has faced something similar. From this very personal moment, today’s newsletter begins with a closer look at how to read the emotions behind our children’s behavior.
🚀 What We’re Talking About
Tantrums
When a child lashes out, it often signals fatigue, hunger, or a craving for connection.
Instead of saying “Stop whining,” try “Are you tired? Want to rest a bit?”
Offer small choices such as “Would you like some water, or a short break?”
Little Lies
Lies are rarely about mischief. More often, they come from fear of punishment or a wish to be accepted.
Replace “Why did you lie?” with “That must have felt hard. Mommy did the same when I was little.”
Use role-play to show that being honest is safe, helping your child build self-esteem.
One day, during a doll play session, my daughter reached for her small snack cup. Holding it herself, she picked out fruit while we kept talking. That simple act of independence helped her calm down little by little.
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Silence
Sometimes quiet is not defiance but a lack of tools to express emotions.
Try alternatives like drawing, facial expression cards, or puppet shows. These give children new ways to share what words can’t yet capture.
🛎️ A Gentle Reminder
Every child is unique. The reflections in this newsletter are based on common developmental patterns and widely shared parenting practices, but they may not apply in the same way to every child. If your child’s emotions feel overwhelming or persistent, please consider seeking guidance from a trusted professional.
🗓️ Gentle Planning Notes
Small steps to try this week;
☐ Pause and ask yourself what might be causing your child’s tantrum before correcting it
☐ Listen for the need behind a lie and reassure your child that honesty is safe
☐ Create alternative outlets such as drawing or puppet play when silence takes over
☐ Connect by sharing a childhood story of your own so your child knows they are not alone
☐ Practice role-play once a day to build comfort with rejection and confidence in self-expression
Parenting is full of hidden signals, and often what looks like simple misbehavior is really a child’s way of asking to be understood. By slowing down, listening deeply, and offering gentle alternatives, we give our children the strength to grow into themselves with courage and confidence.
Thank you for spending this moment with me. May your week be filled with patience, small joys, and meaningful connections with your little ones.
With warmth,
With love and hope for every child’s journey. ♥️
